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Women, especially beautiful women, are very socially adapted. It is no mystery that men are more often than not "behind the curve" when it comes to social intelligence. Women know how to test a man to see if he is the kind of man she would be interested in. Men are frequently failing these tests without even knowing their taking them!
Beautiful women can have anything they want in life. They have been treated differently from a young age. Subconsciously they know they are ridiculous when they act like a bitch or throw temper tantrums but they don't care because it has always gotten them what they want since they were young. Underneath this behavior is still a woman who responds to a certain kind of man with attraction.
What sets a man apart in their eyes is a man with a strong sense of self who will challenge her! From a male perspective this may seem counter intuitive. When a grown women acts like a two year old throwing a fit, she is testing you. Most men immediately back peddle and say they are sorry or give her anything she wants. This reaction shows her that you will bend to her every whim and you are weak! In a word you failed!
So how do you "pass" these tests? First you have to know what women want in a man. She is testing to see if you will stay in control and composed in the face of her apparent disapproval and juvenile behavior! This shows that you will not put up with second-class behavior from her, will not bend to her whims, and challenge her! The tests she gives you are in the hopes that you will remain composed, and indifferent with a sarcastic wit about you.
Why, wouldn't she want a man who is sensitive and accommodating? Because women need to know a man can take charge of a situation, control himself, and the nature of your relationships. This does not mean being misogynistic, jealous, or overbearing!
The other trait women are dying to find in a man is a challenge. This should be of no surprise. Why do you think women love bad boys? We all appreciate things we have to work harder for, and women are no different. So how do we show these qualities in a practical situation?
First and foremost, never apologies when she throws a fit. Just say "awe that's cute, you're throwing a tantrum, I know that's worked since you were two years old but its not going to work today." Say this with a sarcastic wit and don't bend. Congratulations, you passed the test! Now she is intrigued, you're in control and she cant imagine why you would show such disinterest. Another tip is to never give a direct answer to her questions unless the answer is no. For example, if she says: "call me tomorrow" say "You call me, you know you want me."
If a women complains about you like your speech or what your wearing, or anything for that matter just fire right back with "well, than you might want to leave because I do this a lot."
When interacting with women it is all about doing things on your terms. If she asks for something than you cannot give it to her unless it is on your terms. This is why random gifts for no apparent reason are so attractive to women. Another example would be if she says, "come over right now" you should say, "I'm busy, and I'll come over later." This kind of behavior sends mixed signals to her and it will keep her intrigued.
As with many aspects of our interactions with women, passing their tests are counter intuitive. However, if you can put away your old "logical" behaviors that have failed you over and over again and try what we have just covered you will like the results!
Author Resource:- This article and many others is from the article archives of a periodical dedicated to improving men's dating and sex lives, with knowledge from the worlds top experts atwww.gentlemansdossier.com
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